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How to get your writing mojo back after a long break

You can get it back!

Let’s say you had to “take a break” from your writing and are trying to get back into it again. You have added writing time back to your schedule and are working on that unfinished story that you set aside, oh so long ago. Great! But something is off. Your mojo isn’t there.

You are putting in the time and/or word count again, but it isn’t the same. You know you are supposed to quiet that inner critic while you are writing, save the editing for when you are done with the first draft and all that. Still, you read over what you have written and…well…it isn’t good. Just like you knew it wasn’t. It is dry and painful with no life and devoid of that creative spark. Your mojo is gone.

It happens to all of us.

Those of us who don’t earn a living from our writing will find times when we need to take a break from it. There can be many reasons: moving, changing jobs, going back to school, having a baby, burnt out, etc.

My reasons were that I had changed jobs and started going back to school. I tell myself that if it had been one or the other I would have stayed on track with my writing, but who knows. The new job and school both required time and energy that left me doing little else. Taking the extra hour every day to work on my story was hard. Harder was realizing that I had to prioritize my “creative energy.” Creativity doesn’t just flow out of me in an unending stream.  It has limits. I found that I had enough for only two of the three, and if I tried to spread it out beyond two, then all three suffered. Badly. Since I paid for school, and my job paid for everything, I decided to let the writing rest for a bit.

I am now on a break from school and want to work on my story. But my mojo was missing. I was sure that if I just stuck to it, it would come back. But by that time I might be starting school again. I needed short-cut. But what?

The secret potion to restore your mojo!

Then I saw my old “Writing Down the Bones” by Natalie Goldberg. I don’t know where it had been, but it was placed on the little end table by my chair. Either one of the kids had borrowed it, or my wife had found it and didn’t know where it went and just placed it at my spot. Regardless, it felt like a divine intervention for my writing.

If you haven’t read it, I recommend you do so. This is actually my second copy. I had to buy it again when I lost my first one years ago. It is that important to me. The premise is simple: Pick a subject and write about it for a predetermined amount of time. During that time just keep writing. Don’t worry about punctuation or spelling, don’t cross anything out, just keep your hand moving. Natalie talks about not thinking, just doing it, let the writing go whichever direction it chooses. Lose control and don’t shy away from the hard, scary, or personal stuff if it comes up.

It is a wonderful book and will inspire you. The book goes into much more detail, but it is all worth reading. It includes Natalie’s personal journey, the few rules for this particular style of writing practice and a long list of subjects for when you just don’t know how to get started. It will jump-start your creative juices and shut down that inner critic.

And keep at it!

Read the book and commit to doing the writing practice for ten minutes a day for five days and you will be back to where you were before your break. Your unique voice will start to shine through your writing again, that special way that you think and communicate and which makes your writing so valuable.

I plan to keep on going with the practices, to keep things fresh. Even when life gets “too busy” again and I have to put my projects on the shelf for a period of time, I plan to keep on with these practices. I have my mojo back, and I don’t want to lose it again!

Experiencing Life – Remembering That There is More to Living Than Just Writing

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Critical information: remember to experience life. Get outside and do things with your family and loved ones. It is the shared experiences that will stay with all of you as life eventually pulls and tears at us.

This weekend was a good reminder for me. Saturday was more packed with activities than I would have preferred. Continue reading Experiencing Life – Remembering That There is More to Living Than Just Writing

Self Editing With Online Tools

The joy!
The joy!

Editing is where the work is. Editing tools, like Grammarly, can make it much easier! Self-editing is never as good as haveing someone else do it.  However, you do not want to pay someone to point out that you confused “you’re” and “your”.  Embarrassing! Better to find those on your own and send the editor a good product to work with.

I use Grammarly. I was given an account through that school I mentioned. It is a great tool for academics and a “good” tool for creative writers. I say good, because even though it has  a style setting called “novel” it really is a stickler for the rules. That was great in school. In fact, the teachers/professors used Grammarly to find our mistakes!  Another great feature is that it has plugins for MS Word and Chrome as well.

The problem with following such strict rules is that your voice can get lost. Continue reading Self Editing With Online Tools

Read My Stuff

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Ready for the big surprise! I am including the first section of my work The Fifth Brother in the “My Writings” page. This is the story I am working on for NaNoWriMo that I mentioned last week.

Here is the deal. I am editing my The Fifth Brother so I can get back into the story before we kick off NaNoWriMo in November. Since I am putting in some work to make the parts I’ve written readable, I figured I should let someone read it. So I chose you! Continue reading Read My Stuff

So glad to be BACK and just in time for NaNoWriMo!

It is almost NaNoWriMo time!
It is almost NaNoWriMo time!

It was a busy, BUSY year for me. I finished up some intense “schooling,” and I spent a good portion of time on the East coast to get it all complete. Because of it, I let my writing slide for the duration. I only had so much to give and was at a point where everything would suffer (home, work, school, AND writing) if I pushed that hard. So I took a break. Now I am back, and what timing!

As I was unpacking at home, I began to get the emails: Start preparing for NaNoWriMo! Woohoo! What better way to jump back into it again than to participate in the National Novel Writing Month competition (NaNoWriMo)?

Continue reading So glad to be BACK and just in time for NaNoWriMo!

I messed up…

Too Busy
Too Busy

Life ever get busy? Really? It isn’t just me?  Glad to know I have a sympathetic reader then. Yeah, I have been on the run lately, trying to get a lot done, with only so many hours in a day. Somethings had to drop off, and since this blog doesn’t pay the bills…

I have been taking a new course for my job. It is pretty busy and it was all new to me. It is six months long and eventually I will need to do an additional two months residence portion. Also, I am the only person from my branch of service in my class. A little culture shock thrown in for fun too! Yay! Continue reading I messed up…

A Plan to go Faster!

ChalkBoardDid you participate in NaNoWriMo? I did. I used every spare moment to escape to the keyboard and pound out some words. My family was very understanding, thankfully.

Writing can feel so selfish at times. It is a solitary journey and when you have a family that you only see for a few hours  a day it can seem almost hostile to insist that you have to disappear for an hour or so. With NaNoWriMo, at least there was the excuse that it was just for the month. That there was an end on sight, that this was temporary, made all the difference.

With a goal of writing as much as possible during the month, I knew I needed a plan. Writers are generally categorized as either plotter or pantsers. Plotters develop characters, story arches, plot and themes before ever typing their opening line. Pantsers are writers who do not have a plan, but just want to see what happens as they go. Story telling “by the seat of their pants” A.K.A. pantsers.

Everything I had read or listened to lately had said that the secret to writing well and fast was to have a well outlined plan before starting. To be a plotter.

It made sense to me, so I bought the book Take Off Your Pants by Libbie Hawker.  I found it really helpful. This was my second year participating in NaNoWriMo and I DOUBLED my Continue reading A Plan to go Faster!

National Novel Writing Month

NaNoWriMo 2015
National Novel Writing Month 2015

Have you heard of National Novel Writing Month? Or NaNoWriMo for short? Every November millions of people sign up to commit to writing as much as they can in a month. The stated goal is 50,000 words at the end of 30 days. Many people achieve that goal every year. Not me, but there are people who have.

For me it is extra incentive to write with an accelerated pace for a month. Of course you can set that goal yourself and never join the official event, but it wouldn’t be as much fun. Plus, lets be honest, if all it took to for me to write 50,000 words was just saying I was going to do it, I would have already done it.

Here is a short idea of how it works. You make a profile and describe your book. You log Continue reading National Novel Writing Month

Stand up writing

Man sitting at desk has back pain
Sitting all day is a killer!

I am sure you have at least heard of stand up desks. The latest health push is to get us off our backsides and on our feet. Apparently  sitting is much worse for us than standing. Made sense to me and I liked the idea so I requested an adjustable stand up desk at work. I requested it four months ago, but still no stand up desk.

I really wanted to try this, so I rigged my writing desk by using a rack made for organizing my closet then putting my laptop on top of that. It takes a little getting used to. I quickly found out that there are some hurdles. First, your feet hurt.  Quickly.  Second, you can only stand for so long, then you need (want?) to sit down. No real surprises. Pretty much what I had read from others who had gone down this path.

First think I needed to do  was to ease my foot pain.  Now, every thing I read recommended standing pads. Like this:

But I didn’t want to spend the money. And I wanted to get started NOW so I found my sandals that I had bought from the Exchange. The are Sanuk Beer Cozy Sandals and they seem to be doing the trick, at least for now. They are really comfortable!

Still, I can only do the standing thing for so long. Ideally you take a break, but sometimes I need to stay at the screen. OK. usually I just want to surf the net for a while.  The set up I had was a hassle to undo, so I broke down and bought a ready made gadget to hold my large 17 inch screen laptop up off my desk. I am an Amazon Prime member, mostly because I am so impatient, and I got this baby within two days. I love it! It is light but sturdy, very adjustable and easy to remove when I need to sit down again.  I think it is the best solution for me and it is fairly cheap. This is the exact one I got:

I will keep you posted on what I think, but this works for me. For now!

Labor Day

The San Diego skyline taken from the Coronado
San Diego skyline Labor Day 2015

This is something I did not want to share. I believe it is private and others have said not to share it. I am going against their advice and my own.

My rough draft is done. There, I said it. Yesterday I typed “THE END” at the bottom of a page. I believe the writing process should be kept private until you have something to show. Of course if you are part of a writing group, then do what ever you agree on, but otherwise don’t share have baked books.

So why am I sharing this one? First, I want you to know that something was happening. That my writing was more than a few blog posts. Second, this is my first book and like many first books, I doubt it will every see the light of day. From what I have researched, most first books are an exercise of demons and take an eternity to write, but once that first one is out and the demons trapped into words on pages, from then on the writing comes quicker and easier. I hope that is true.

My plan is to let it sit for a month before I go back and start editing. Now it the time for thinking up new story ideas and doing some writing practices. Time to get excited about the next story, as soon as I find out what it is.

Today is Labor Day. We had some friends over Friday and went to Coronado on Monday and mosly I just hung out with my family in between. I will be going on the road again soon, so sleeping in and spending time at home was a necessity.