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What to Listen to When You Write

You want to be in ‘flow’ when you write. Flow is the feeling of total immersion in a task that also makes the task seem almost effortless. In sports, we used to call it being ‘in the zone’ where the athlete just couldn’t seem to make a mistake. Maybe you have felt it before as well. You are engrossed in a project, distractions fall away and so does doubt and fear. You can have flow all sorts of activities: painting, driving, martial arts, playing musical instruments…writing. When you are able to hush your inner critic and your story starts to write itself and you are just trying to keep up, that is flow. Hopefully, you have experienced it in the past. If you are like me, you don’t experience it every time but love it when it happens.

There are a number of things you can do to increase the chances of getting into a flow state. Writing at the same time and at the same place is a big help. What you listen to can also have a great impact and that is what we are going to talk about today.

Many writers listen to music when they write. Others prefer silence. Some prefer to work at coffee shops with all of its background noise. The right answer is to use what works for you. But what do you do if you are not sure what is best for you? You try different things until you find the one that does work! Now, that could take a long time, so I am going to give you some guidance to help narrow down your options and get you on your best path towards focused writing.

MUSIC

So, when I was a young teenager I would see those older teenagers always listening to current rock music when they were doing school work. In the sitcoms, the parents would yell at them to turn down their music and the kids would yell back that they needed it to study and then there would be some clever comments from the parents, angst from the teenager and then a canned laugh track. All that to say that what I learned was that to be a successful teenager meant rocking out as often as possible and that included when I was studying. But it didn’t work for me, and boy did I try! The boring reality is that I focus best in silence. Maybe the voices in my head don’t like the competition!

Then I began to read about other writers. Stephen King likes to listen to rock, for instance. I did some studying and if you are someone who wants to write while listening to music there are some general rules. It should be the same song or a short selection of songs. And they should be songs you are very familiar with. When you are writing it is not the time to try and discover new bands. They type of music is an individual preference, but the key is that it falls into the background and doesn’t pull you into it and away from your writing.

The Coffe Shop

Some people find themselves more productive in coffee shops. Science says it is not just the caffeine that is helping! The low key music helps, but so does the multiple conversations going on. Apparently, your mind can recognize that you are trying to focus and turn all the talk into a pleasant white noise background. So, if that is your cup of tea (or cup-of-joe) then go right ahead and enjoy and write your socks off! Now, I am sharing this with you during the COVID 19 pandemic and maybe you find the endorsement of coffee shop writing a bit cruel of me. Fear not! You can search for Coffee Shop Background noise on Amazon, Itunes or Spotify. They are there and can really do the trick! There is a sample from Soundcloud at the end of this article you can listen to see if you like it.

Nature and Ambieance

Another option is listening to ambiance soundtracks. The coffee shop probably falls into this one, but generally what I am referring to are ‘nature sounds’ such as rain, babbling brooks, seashore sounds. These are pretty easy to find as well. Some writers choose to try and match the background sounds to what they are writing. Joanna Penn, who often writes supernatural thrillers and is a fan of visiting graveyards, says she likes to listen to stormy night sounds, says it keeps her in the right mood.

Binaural Beats

Lastly, I want to talk about binaural beats. I am in no way qualified to talk about all the science behind this tool, but if you are interested here is a well-written article about it from Healthline: This is Your Brain on BInaural Beats. Click on it and it will open in another tab.

I have played with these a bit and I find they do work. I work mostly in silence, but sometimes I need some help and I find that the right binaural beats will get me there. Often the frequencies they use are buried within some sort of soundtrack, so you may have to search around for one that fits your mood or isn’t distracting. Some folks don’t like them because the buried frequencies make their head feel a little funny like a light buzzing. Again, there are multiple free resources to try them out.

I am using brain.fm right now based on the recommendation of an author I like. They let you listen to five free tracks, but then you have to pay. I went ahead and subscribed for a year, I figured it keeps me from wasting time searching the internet for “focus binaural beats” when I should be writing. Oh, an important point! When your search for Binaural Beats be sure to include the word ‘focus’ or else you may get any of the many other, uh, flavors that they come in. Some are pretty legitimate such as ‘sleep’ or ‘meditation’ but some go in some interesting (or weird) directions. To help you out I included another sample from SoundCloud at the end of the article so you can get a taste.

Stay Focused

Finding what is right for you can be a journey. Sometimes something only works for a while and then stops. Or it is only appropriate for a certain project. While I do encourage some experimentation, I caution against letting it eat up a lot of your creative time. Find something that works, then stick with it until it doesn’t cut it anymore. The real test is how much writing you are getting done, not the soundtrack you listen to. So, slip on your headphones, key up your jam, and keep writing!

Getting ready to write your book!

National Novel Writing Month starts in November. Are you ready? I can’t hear you! I said: ARE YOU READY?? Yeah, me neither. Also, I hate speakers who make you ‘cheer’ louder. Can’t stand it. I want to get up and walk out when they do that. Anyway, I digress.

National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) is a great way to come together with other writers and focus on writing. The goal is to write a novel during the month of November. Get motivated and started here: https://www.nanowrimo.org/

For most of us, pursuing our creative dreams involves motivation. We have jobs and families and maybe some hobbies. But we also have dreams and a desire to pursue them! NaNoWriMo is a great excuse (reason?) to pursue that dream. Sign up on the website and receive encouragement and a sense of community.

The stated goal of NaNoWriMo is to get 50 thousand words down (average novel-length) during the month of November. However, you can use it for anything you like. I plan on using it to finish my current book, which I have been neglecting. I will tell you more about my struggles with writing recently in my newsletter. If you care. If not, no big deal. I am just happy you are here and sharing this journey with me!

If you are going to start a novel from scratch, I want to make a recommendation. More of a suggestion, I guess. Try using the Story Shop! It looks very promising! You can use it for free or pay if you want some of the extra features. I would love to hear if it delivers on all the promises it makes. I want to use if for my next book SO BAD! However, I have promised myself to finish my current work first :( If you currently use it, let me know what you think of it!

The Newsletter, and why you should join!

newsletter-picYou may have noticed the “Sign-up form” that I have on every page and wondered what it was for and why you would want to give another website your email address.

That sign-up form is a way for you and me to stay in touch. It lets me know that you are really interested in what I have going on. That you want to be a part of what is going on in my life and my craft. That makes you special to me!

I want to reward those of you who want to be part of my inner-circle. But how can I do that? I am an active duty Dad (which means I don’t have a lot of disposable income) so I won’t be able to get everyone a new car if they sign up. So what can I give you?

First, you will get an occasional email from me. It will be a little more in depth on how my  family and I are doing and what I have planned for the business side of things. I may link to a couple of blog posts that relate, but most of it will be brand new and more personal.  I want it personal so you will feel free to email me back. YOU are my inner circle, talk to me! Let me know what you like and don’t like and what you are going through. When you reply to the newsletter, it comes to me. Not some ‘bot somewhere.

Second, you will be the first recipients of my book, Fifth Brother (working title, it could change) when it comes out. For free!

I don’t have all the detail worked out yet. In fact, the book isn’t finished yet! [Come on National Novel Writing Month!] But it will be at some point, and I want you there with me as I go through it all. And then I want you to read it. Not as a customer but as part of  the team that makes it a reality!

Now, for some other things to know about the newsletter. If you want to cancel, just click the unsubscribe link at the bottom and you will stop getting them. If you want to start up again, just come back and all is good. If you want to change email addresses that receive the Newsletter, just sign up with your new email address and then click on the unsubscribe link from a newsletter delivered from your old address. And if you have ANY questions or something isn’t working right, just email me! I will get right to work on it.

Oh, and have you checked out My Writings lately?

 

Experiencing Life – Remembering That There is More to Living Than Just Writing

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Critical information: remember to experience life. Get outside and do things with your family and loved ones. It is the shared experiences that will stay with all of you as life eventually pulls and tears at us.

This weekend was a good reminder for me. Saturday was more packed with activities than I would have preferred. Continue reading Experiencing Life – Remembering That There is More to Living Than Just Writing

Read My Stuff

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Ready for the big surprise! I am including the first section of my work The Fifth Brother in the “My Writings” page. This is the story I am working on for NaNoWriMo that I mentioned last week.

Here is the deal. I am editing my The Fifth Brother so I can get back into the story before we kick off NaNoWriMo in November. Since I am putting in some work to make the parts I’ve written readable, I figured I should let someone read it. So I chose you! Continue reading Read My Stuff

A Plan to go Faster!

ChalkBoardDid you participate in NaNoWriMo? I did. I used every spare moment to escape to the keyboard and pound out some words. My family was very understanding, thankfully.

Writing can feel so selfish at times. It is a solitary journey and when you have a family that you only see for a few hours  a day it can seem almost hostile to insist that you have to disappear for an hour or so. With NaNoWriMo, at least there was the excuse that it was just for the month. That there was an end on sight, that this was temporary, made all the difference.

With a goal of writing as much as possible during the month, I knew I needed a plan. Writers are generally categorized as either plotter or pantsers. Plotters develop characters, story arches, plot and themes before ever typing their opening line. Pantsers are writers who do not have a plan, but just want to see what happens as they go. Story telling “by the seat of their pants” A.K.A. pantsers.

Everything I had read or listened to lately had said that the secret to writing well and fast was to have a well outlined plan before starting. To be a plotter.

It made sense to me, so I bought the book Take Off Your Pants by Libbie Hawker.  I found it really helpful. This was my second year participating in NaNoWriMo and I DOUBLED my Continue reading A Plan to go Faster!

Labor Day

The San Diego skyline taken from the Coronado
San Diego skyline Labor Day 2015

This is something I did not want to share. I believe it is private and others have said not to share it. I am going against their advice and my own.

My rough draft is done. There, I said it. Yesterday I typed “THE END” at the bottom of a page. I believe the writing process should be kept private until you have something to show. Of course if you are part of a writing group, then do what ever you agree on, but otherwise don’t share have baked books.

So why am I sharing this one? First, I want you to know that something was happening. That my writing was more than a few blog posts. Second, this is my first book and like many first books, I doubt it will every see the light of day. From what I have researched, most first books are an exercise of demons and take an eternity to write, but once that first one is out and the demons trapped into words on pages, from then on the writing comes quicker and easier. I hope that is true.

My plan is to let it sit for a month before I go back and start editing. Now it the time for thinking up new story ideas and doing some writing practices. Time to get excited about the next story, as soon as I find out what it is.

Today is Labor Day. We had some friends over Friday and went to Coronado on Monday and mosly I just hung out with my family in between. I will be going on the road again soon, so sleeping in and spending time at home was a necessity.

 

Still here

I am around. Just like you, life comes at me sometimes. This time it is nothing bad. I can’t complain, really. I am at a class for a couple weeks. What I can complain about is how it gives me such a great excuse not to write.

Ever been there? Right now I am near the end of writing a book. Finishing up the last scenes of the rough draft. Usually that is plenty of reason by itself. Finishing means change and that can be a good enough reason to slow the writing train.

Add on to that a class I am taking which is heavy in the writing area and I have all these great excuses not to write! I know it is a weak excuse. I wouldn’t let any of you get away with it!

What? posting on this blog isn’t really writing? OK, i get it. I am still wasting time and not writing. You caught me. I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. I am glad I did, you keep me honest!

Mingle

People socializing at a Christmas Party
Have fun getting to know each other

I believe that people rarely get anywhere on their own. I for one have not achieved the level of professional success that I have by leaning on my own skills and neglecting everyone else. I would go so far as to say that most of my success in the military has been based on my readiness to help others.

There are quite a few out there that say the indie writing community is the same. Continue reading Mingle

Happy Fathers Day!

Father and son holding hands at beachI’ve been working on a post about how my writing has been more productive lately. It is a good post and you’ll like it. There are some tweeking I need to do to it to make it really useful and polished, but it will be good. But I am not posting that today. Today is Fathers Day.

I have four children. Continue reading Happy Fathers Day!