What to Listen to When You Write

You want to be in ‘flow’ when you write. Flow is the feeling of total immersion in a task that also makes the task seem almost effortless. In sports, we used to call it being ‘in the zone’ where the athlete just couldn’t seem to make a mistake. Maybe you have felt it before as well. You are engrossed in a project, distractions fall away and so does doubt and fear. You can have flow all sorts of activities: painting, driving, martial arts, playing musical instruments…writing. When you are able to hush your inner critic and your story starts to write itself and you are just trying to keep up, that is flow. Hopefully, you have experienced it in the past. If you are like me, you don’t experience it every time but love it when it happens.

There are a number of things you can do to increase the chances of getting into a flow state. Writing at the same time and at the same place is a big help. What you listen to can also have a great impact and that is what we are going to talk about today.

Many writers listen to music when they write. Others prefer silence. Some prefer to work at coffee shops with all of its background noise. The right answer is to use what works for you. But what do you do if you are not sure what is best for you? You try different things until you find the one that does work! Now, that could take a long time, so I am going to give you some guidance to help narrow down your options and get you on your best path towards focused writing.

MUSIC

So, when I was a young teenager I would see those older teenagers always listening to current rock music when they were doing school work. In the sitcoms, the parents would yell at them to turn down their music and the kids would yell back that they needed it to study and then there would be some clever comments from the parents, angst from the teenager and then a canned laugh track. All that to say that what I learned was that to be a successful teenager meant rocking out as often as possible and that included when I was studying. But it didn’t work for me, and boy did I try! The boring reality is that I focus best in silence. Maybe the voices in my head don’t like the competition!

Then I began to read about other writers. Stephen King likes to listen to rock, for instance. I did some studying and if you are someone who wants to write while listening to music there are some general rules. It should be the same song or a short selection of songs. And they should be songs you are very familiar with. When you are writing it is not the time to try and discover new bands. They type of music is an individual preference, but the key is that it falls into the background and doesn’t pull you into it and away from your writing.

The Coffe Shop

Some people find themselves more productive in coffee shops. Science says it is not just the caffeine that is helping! The low key music helps, but so does the multiple conversations going on. Apparently, your mind can recognize that you are trying to focus and turn all the talk into a pleasant white noise background. So, if that is your cup of tea (or cup-of-joe) then go right ahead and enjoy and write your socks off! Now, I am sharing this with you during the COVID 19 pandemic and maybe you find the endorsement of coffee shop writing a bit cruel of me. Fear not! You can search for Coffee Shop Background noise on Amazon, Itunes or Spotify. They are there and can really do the trick! There is a sample from Soundcloud at the end of this article you can listen to see if you like it.

Nature and Ambieance

Another option is listening to ambiance soundtracks. The coffee shop probably falls into this one, but generally what I am referring to are ‘nature sounds’ such as rain, babbling brooks, seashore sounds. These are pretty easy to find as well. Some writers choose to try and match the background sounds to what they are writing. Joanna Penn, who often writes supernatural thrillers and is a fan of visiting graveyards, says she likes to listen to stormy night sounds, says it keeps her in the right mood.

Binaural Beats

Lastly, I want to talk about binaural beats. I am in no way qualified to talk about all the science behind this tool, but if you are interested here is a well-written article about it from Healthline: This is Your Brain on BInaural Beats. Click on it and it will open in another tab.

I have played with these a bit and I find they do work. I work mostly in silence, but sometimes I need some help and I find that the right binaural beats will get me there. Often the frequencies they use are buried within some sort of soundtrack, so you may have to search around for one that fits your mood or isn’t distracting. Some folks don’t like them because the buried frequencies make their head feel a little funny like a light buzzing. Again, there are multiple free resources to try them out.

I am using brain.fm right now based on the recommendation of an author I like. They let you listen to five free tracks, but then you have to pay. I went ahead and subscribed for a year, I figured it keeps me from wasting time searching the internet for “focus binaural beats” when I should be writing. Oh, an important point! When your search for Binaural Beats be sure to include the word ‘focus’ or else you may get any of the many other, uh, flavors that they come in. Some are pretty legitimate such as ‘sleep’ or ‘meditation’ but some go in some interesting (or weird) directions. To help you out I included another sample from SoundCloud at the end of the article so you can get a taste.

Stay Focused

Finding what is right for you can be a journey. Sometimes something only works for a while and then stops. Or it is only appropriate for a certain project. While I do encourage some experimentation, I caution against letting it eat up a lot of your creative time. Find something that works, then stick with it until it doesn’t cut it anymore. The real test is how much writing you are getting done, not the soundtrack you listen to. So, slip on your headphones, key up your jam, and keep writing!

Getting ready to write your book!

National Novel Writing Month starts in November. Are you ready? I can’t hear you! I said: ARE YOU READY?? Yeah, me neither. Also, I hate speakers who make you ‘cheer’ louder. Can’t stand it. I want to get up and walk out when they do that. Anyway, I digress.

National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) is a great way to come together with other writers and focus on writing. The goal is to write a novel during the month of November. Get motivated and started here: https://www.nanowrimo.org/

For most of us, pursuing our creative dreams involves motivation. We have jobs and families and maybe some hobbies. But we also have dreams and a desire to pursue them! NaNoWriMo is a great excuse (reason?) to pursue that dream. Sign up on the website and receive encouragement and a sense of community.

The stated goal of NaNoWriMo is to get 50 thousand words down (average novel-length) during the month of November. However, you can use it for anything you like. I plan on using it to finish my current book, which I have been neglecting. I will tell you more about my struggles with writing recently in my newsletter. If you care. If not, no big deal. I am just happy you are here and sharing this journey with me!

If you are going to start a novel from scratch, I want to make a recommendation. More of a suggestion, I guess. Try using the Story Shop! It looks very promising! You can use it for free or pay if you want some of the extra features. I would love to hear if it delivers on all the promises it makes. I want to use if for my next book SO BAD! However, I have promised myself to finish my current work first :( If you currently use it, let me know what you think of it!

How to get your writing mojo back after a long break

You can get it back!

Let’s say you had to “take a break” from your writing and are trying to get back into it again. You have added writing time back to your schedule and are working on that unfinished story that you set aside, oh so long ago. Great! But something is off. Your mojo isn’t there.

You are putting in the time and/or word count again, but it isn’t the same. You know you are supposed to quiet that inner critic while you are writing, save the editing for when you are done with the first draft and all that. Still, you read over what you have written and…well…it isn’t good. Just like you knew it wasn’t. It is dry and painful with no life and devoid of that creative spark. Your mojo is gone.

It happens to all of us.

Those of us who don’t earn a living from our writing will find times when we need to take a break from it. There can be many reasons: moving, changing jobs, going back to school, having a baby, burnt out, etc.

My reasons were that I had changed jobs and started going back to school. I tell myself that if it had been one or the other I would have stayed on track with my writing, but who knows. The new job and school both required time and energy that left me doing little else. Taking the extra hour every day to work on my story was hard. Harder was realizing that I had to prioritize my “creative energy.” Creativity doesn’t just flow out of me in an unending stream.  It has limits. I found that I had enough for only two of the three, and if I tried to spread it out beyond two, then all three suffered. Badly. Since I paid for school, and my job paid for everything, I decided to let the writing rest for a bit.

I am now on a break from school and want to work on my story. But my mojo was missing. I was sure that if I just stuck to it, it would come back. But by that time I might be starting school again. I needed short-cut. But what?

The secret potion to restore your mojo!

Then I saw my old “Writing Down the Bones” by Natalie Goldberg. I don’t know where it had been, but it was placed on the little end table by my chair. Either one of the kids had borrowed it, or my wife had found it and didn’t know where it went and just placed it at my spot. Regardless, it felt like a divine intervention for my writing.

If you haven’t read it, I recommend you do so. This is actually my second copy. I had to buy it again when I lost my first one years ago. It is that important to me. The premise is simple: Pick a subject and write about it for a predetermined amount of time. During that time just keep writing. Don’t worry about punctuation or spelling, don’t cross anything out, just keep your hand moving. Natalie talks about not thinking, just doing it, let the writing go whichever direction it chooses. Lose control and don’t shy away from the hard, scary, or personal stuff if it comes up.

It is a wonderful book and will inspire you. The book goes into much more detail, but it is all worth reading. It includes Natalie’s personal journey, the few rules for this particular style of writing practice and a long list of subjects for when you just don’t know how to get started. It will jump-start your creative juices and shut down that inner critic.

And keep at it!

Read the book and commit to doing the writing practice for ten minutes a day for five days and you will be back to where you were before your break. Your unique voice will start to shine through your writing again, that special way that you think and communicate and which makes your writing so valuable.

I plan to keep on going with the practices, to keep things fresh. Even when life gets “too busy” again and I have to put my projects on the shelf for a period of time, I plan to keep on with these practices. I have my mojo back, and I don’t want to lose it again!

Three must read books for writers.

Writers must be readers. It is a commandment given so many times in books for writers. Or maybe it is an observation. Successful writers read a lot. They read for pleasure as well as research. You should too.

Mostly, those will overlap. Write in the genre that you enjoy reading the most. If your guilty pleasure is tearing through a thriller, but you want to write a historical romance, you are going to have a rough go of it. Write that thriller instead. You will have a natural sense of plot and tempo that comes with familiarity.  Now,  most adults may need to cut back on their leisure reading to carve out more time for other responsibilities. But you are also a writer, and writers must be readers, you have a duty to your craft that says you must keep reading. So, keep reading those books that make you happy, it is part of your growing writer’s life.

There are also books about writing. Actually, there are THOUSANDS! Everything from writing lifestyle to plot development, to genre specific. I have read many of them. Like most good books, there is usually some good information in them. Some new light is shown on a concept that is helpful. They are nice, and I try and keep them in mind for later use when I see a weak point in my own writing.

Then there are the ones that I continue to read again and again. They inform and inspire. The books I have selected to share are not the only books that I have found to be transformative, and there are others that caused me some pain to not include.  I am not unique in my admiration of these books, you will find them on other people’s lists as well. In fact, that is how I found most of them, by reading someone else’s “most favorite” list. Now it is my turn, so here are my personal top three.

Raye’s Top Three Books for Writers

The first one got on my list because it is the one that made writing for a living, in this internet/Amazon/eReader age, seem a truly achievable goal. It made the possibility real. REALY real!

It is full of practical advice, real-life examples, and motivation. When I say “motivation” I don’t mean plucky little can-do sayings with a small illustration to pull at your heart. I mean that the authors’ excitement and joy are palpable and contagious. Oh, and “authors” is plural. There are three and they not only collaborated on this book but had been doing so for years in the fiction.  They continue to be very active in the writing community. This book is what turned me on to them, and I still follow them today.

Write. Publish. Repeat. So that you can start looking at making your writing dreams a reality.

Write.Publish.Repeat
Write.Publish.Repeat

This next one is pretty well known. It is written by Steven Pressfield, a well  accomplished author. The first book I read of his was Gates of Fire which I credit with getting the whole Sparta craze going. It is a really great book about the Spartan battle at  Thermopylae.

Anyway, his book, The War of Art, is for authors, or any creative person, deals with overcoming “resistance”. It is also autobiographical, and you get a bit of Steven’s back story as well. But the great takeaway is seeing that he, just like you, must overcome multiple buggyboos that keep him from writing. His tools, rituals are good, but best is learning to recognize those things that are holding you back from doing the writing.

War of Art
War of Art

Finally, there is the classic Stephen King book On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft. This one seems to make it to every list I have seen. For good reason, it is a masterpiece.

I am not even a big Stephen King fan. I have read a few of his books, and I enjoyed them, but his work just isn’t something I must read. He has a dedicated and almost cultish strong fan following, but I am not one of them.

Except maybe when it comes to this book. I am with the fans on this one!

This book tells of his start and how he got to where he is. It also goes a bit into his personal life, which is also fascinating reading. Most importantly, there is a gold mine of writing advice that is solid, dependable, and worth memorizing.  You owe it to yourself to read it.

On Writing
On Writing

There! Those are my top 3. Let me know if you have read any of these, if they were helpful, or what your top books are. I am alway looking for more!

 

The Newsletter, and why you should join!

newsletter-picYou may have noticed the “Sign-up form” that I have on every page and wondered what it was for and why you would want to give another website your email address.

That sign-up form is a way for you and me to stay in touch. It lets me know that you are really interested in what I have going on. That you want to be a part of what is going on in my life and my craft. That makes you special to me!

I want to reward those of you who want to be part of my inner-circle. But how can I do that? I am an active duty Dad (which means I don’t have a lot of disposable income) so I won’t be able to get everyone a new car if they sign up. So what can I give you?

First, you will get an occasional email from me. It will be a little more in depth on how my  family and I are doing and what I have planned for the business side of things. I may link to a couple of blog posts that relate, but most of it will be brand new and more personal.  I want it personal so you will feel free to email me back. YOU are my inner circle, talk to me! Let me know what you like and don’t like and what you are going through. When you reply to the newsletter, it comes to me. Not some ‘bot somewhere.

Second, you will be the first recipients of my book, Fifth Brother (working title, it could change) when it comes out. For free!

I don’t have all the detail worked out yet. In fact, the book isn’t finished yet! [Come on National Novel Writing Month!] But it will be at some point, and I want you there with me as I go through it all. And then I want you to read it. Not as a customer but as part of  the team that makes it a reality!

Now, for some other things to know about the newsletter. If you want to cancel, just click the unsubscribe link at the bottom and you will stop getting them. If you want to start up again, just come back and all is good. If you want to change email addresses that receive the Newsletter, just sign up with your new email address and then click on the unsubscribe link from a newsletter delivered from your old address. And if you have ANY questions or something isn’t working right, just email me! I will get right to work on it.

Oh, and have you checked out My Writings lately?

 

Experiencing Life – Remembering That There is More to Living Than Just Writing

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Critical information: remember to experience life. Get outside and do things with your family and loved ones. It is the shared experiences that will stay with all of you as life eventually pulls and tears at us.

This weekend was a good reminder for me. Saturday was more packed with activities than I would have preferred. Continue reading Experiencing Life – Remembering That There is More to Living Than Just Writing

Self Editing With Online Tools

The joy!
The joy!

Editing is where the work is. Editing tools, like Grammarly, can make it much easier! Self-editing is never as good as haveing someone else do it.  However, you do not want to pay someone to point out that you confused “you’re” and “your”.  Embarrassing! Better to find those on your own and send the editor a good product to work with.

I use Grammarly. I was given an account through that school I mentioned. It is a great tool for academics and a “good” tool for creative writers. I say good, because even though it has  a style setting called “novel” it really is a stickler for the rules. That was great in school. In fact, the teachers/professors used Grammarly to find our mistakes!  Another great feature is that it has plugins for MS Word and Chrome as well.

The problem with following such strict rules is that your voice can get lost. Continue reading Self Editing With Online Tools

Read My Stuff

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Ready for the big surprise! I am including the first section of my work The Fifth Brother in the “My Writings” page. This is the story I am working on for NaNoWriMo that I mentioned last week.

Here is the deal. I am editing my The Fifth Brother so I can get back into the story before we kick off NaNoWriMo in November. Since I am putting in some work to make the parts I’ve written readable, I figured I should let someone read it. So I chose you! Continue reading Read My Stuff

So glad to be BACK and just in time for NaNoWriMo!

It is almost NaNoWriMo time!
It is almost NaNoWriMo time!

It was a busy, BUSY year for me. I finished up some intense “schooling,” and I spent a good portion of time on the East coast to get it all complete. Because of it, I let my writing slide for the duration. I only had so much to give and was at a point where everything would suffer (home, work, school, AND writing) if I pushed that hard. So I took a break. Now I am back, and what timing!

As I was unpacking at home, I began to get the emails: Start preparing for NaNoWriMo! Woohoo! What better way to jump back into it again than to participate in the National Novel Writing Month competition (NaNoWriMo)?

Continue reading So glad to be BACK and just in time for NaNoWriMo!

I messed up…

Too Busy
Too Busy

Life ever get busy? Really? It isn’t just me?  Glad to know I have a sympathetic reader then. Yeah, I have been on the run lately, trying to get a lot done, with only so many hours in a day. Somethings had to drop off, and since this blog doesn’t pay the bills…

I have been taking a new course for my job. It is pretty busy and it was all new to me. It is six months long and eventually I will need to do an additional two months residence portion. Also, I am the only person from my branch of service in my class. A little culture shock thrown in for fun too! Yay! Continue reading I messed up…